Friday, November 3, 2006

Friday's Insights

When You Thought I Wasn't Looking



* Written by a former child -- Author Unkown *
  courtesy of AsAManThinketh.net



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator and I immediately wanted to paint another one.



When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you feed a stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make my favorite cake for me and I learned that the little things can be the special things in life.



When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a prayer, and I knew there is a God I could always talk to and I learned to trust in God.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give of your time and money to help people who had nothing and I learned that those who have something should give to those who don't.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw how you handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't feel good and I learned that I would have to be responsible when I grow up.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw tears come from your eyes and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it's alright to cry.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you cared and I wanted to be everything that I could be.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I learned most of life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.



When you thought I wasn't looking, I looked at you and wanted to say, "Thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't looking."






Tuesday, September 5, 2006

"The Notebook"

page 179....



"We sit silently and watch the world around us. . . . , for silence is pure.  Silence is holy.  It draws people together because only those who are comfortable with each other can sit without speaking.  This is the great paradox." 



-- Noah Calhoun

Saturday, August 19, 2006

reflections....

The Final Move
-- Chris Rice



It was love that set our fragile plante rolling
Tilting at our perfect twenty-three
Molecules and men infused with holy
Finding our way around the galaxy
And Paradise was up and flown away for now
But hope still breathes and truth is always love
And just when we think it's almost over
Love has the final move
Love has the final move...



Something right went very wrong
But love has been here all along



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Nonny Nonny
-- Chris Rice



My adolesen[ce]
Reads just like the Pevensies' adventures
'cause every perfect now and then
I caught a glimpse of Aslan's mane
And I longed for His treasure
Something in His mystery was drawing me
To love the Author of my own biography



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I Would be True
-- Howard A. Walter



I would be true, for there are those who trust me;
I would be pure, for there are those who care;
I would be strong, for there is much to suffer;
I would be brave, for there is much to dare;
I would be friend of all -- the foe, the friendless;
I would be giving and forget the gift;
I would be humble, for I know my weakness;
I would look up and laugh and love [life]



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"'Sorry' is not the hardest word:  it can be dispensed easily and shallowly, without comprehension of its ramifications.  It can be wielded manipulatively, as a tool to try to win favor.  But it can also be used sincerely, to clear the decks, to take responsibility, to learn from mistakes, to change one's behavior and begin again."  -- Leonie Wood of The Age [an Australian online newspaper]

Friday, August 11, 2006

musings....;)

"In the middle of the journey of our life I came to my sense in a dark forest, for I had lost the straight path." -- The Divine Comedy



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Spare an Angel
* Chris Rice *



Found her starin' at the rain
And ask'n why it has to hurt so bad
Where's the limit to the pain her heart can take
Before it breaks in half
I wanted to be strong enough to hold her
And show her the way
But she's so far out of reach
And now all I can do is pray



Can you spare an angel tonight
Send a little help from your side
'coz somebody's lost down here
Let him wing his way through the dare
Carry some of your love into her heart
Can you spare an angel
Spare an angel
Spare an angel



She wonders further in the dark
Feels the cold and hears the thunder cry
While the rain keeps pouring down
Her only answer from the lonely sky
She has no idea how much you love her
Or how much you care
So would you choose one of your best
To be the answer to my prayer



Chorus



Oh I don't know what else to pray this time
Maybe an angel can leade her lonesome heart away to Jesus' side



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"All blame is a waste of time.  No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.  The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration.  You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."  -- Wayne Dyer



"In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves.  The process never ends until we die.  And the choices we make are ultimately our responsibility." -- Eleanor Roosevelt



"And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." -- Anais Nin



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The Oyster
* Author Unknown *



There once was an oyster whose story I tell,
Who found that some sand had got into his shell.
It was only a grain, but it gave him great pain
For oysters have feelings although they're so plain.



Now, did he berate the harsh workings of fate
that brought him to such a deplorable state?
Did he curse at the government, cry for election,
And claim that the sea should have given him protection?



NO -- he said to himself as he lay on a shell,
Since I cannot remove it I shall try to improve it.
Now the years have rolled around, as the years always do.
And he came to his ultimate destiny: stew.



And the small grain of sand that had bothered him so
Was a beautiful pearl all richly aglow.
Now the tale has a moral, for isn't it grand
What an oyster can do with a morsel of sand?



What couldn't we do if we'd only begin
with some of the things that get under our skin?



** Courtesy of AsAManThinketh.net



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The two things I did learn were that you are as powerful and strong as you allow yourself to be, and that the most difficult part of any endeavor is taking the first step, making the first decision." -- Robyn Davidson



"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone else expects of you.  Never excuse yourself." -- Henry Ward Beecher



"Growth is not a steady, forward, upward progression.  It is instead a switchback trail; three steps forward, two back, one around the bushes, and a few simply standing, before another forward leap." -- Dorothy Corkville Briggs



"We need to teach the next generation of children from day one that they are responsible for their lives.  Mankind's greatest gift, also its greatest curse, is that we may have free choice.  We can make our choices built from love or from fear."  -- Elizabeth Kubler-Ross



"Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards." -- Vernon Sanders Law



"Any time you sincerely want to make a change, the first thing you must do is to raise your standards.  When people ask me what really changed my life eight years ago, I tell them that absolutely the most important thing was changing what I demanded of myself.  I wrote down all the things I would no longer accept in my life, all the things I would no longer tolerate, and all the things that I aspired to becoming."  -- Anthony Robbins



"It's kind of fun to do the impossible." -- Walt Disney






Wednesday, January 4, 2006

christmas break..;)

Get-together with classmates & old friends





It was one of those times that I get to enjoy my vacation in my hometown.  The past year was cathartic for me.  I had the time and opportunity to bond with friends old and new, faced my fears, and put closure on an issue, which I've been carrying since "that certain day" of my adolescent life.





Closures





I never expected the extent of the happiness I felt when I had the opportunity to apologize for hurting someone without any explanation.  Though I believe my reasons then were right, I still think I owe the person an apology [even though I realized it was mostly for peace in my mind and heart].  I still don't know whether my apology was accepted, nevertheless, I felt happier 'coz I was able to say what I've been meaning to say for quite some time [8 years, 8 months, and 2 days -- to be exact].





I also had the opportunity to walk the streets of my then [I thought] happy yet boring life.  I'm glad to note that I don't feel the hurt anymore while walking those streets.  I was able to share that moment with a long lost friend whose hurried pace has left me catching my breath.





For all the blessings and love I received in the past year, I face the New Year with confidence and love in my heart.